Does anybody sneak to the Plastic Surgeon's office?

[EcstasiaDame]

My ex used to flip out anytime I booked an appt at the plastic surgeon's to get anything done (ie botox, filler, juvederm in my lips.) I used to make excuses or just tell him I was getting a little botox and come out with my lips done then I'd try to deny it lol. I just didn't like his annoying voice in my ear, it's my money and body and I'll do what I want to it. My gf and I were talking the other day and she would do the same thing tell her bf she was going to Tim Hortons walk inside, walk out the side door and run next door to the PS office and get her lips done. Is that bad to go behind your partner's back?

[Ware_Wolf]

If you need to go behind someone's back to do anything,  you should probably reevaluate the relationship and figure out if you want to stay with that person.

You should also think about how you'd feel if the same was done to you.

[Evan]

yeah i dont get all that plastic surgery, botox crap. Usually starts when somebody who needs an overhaul themselves, starts telling someone beautiful, they coulld be better looking if. And they start believing it.

qft on Johns comment

[EcstasiaDame]

for sure it starts like that... but also there is a lot of pressure from the media and our society's views on aging women. Women are expected to be perfect, wrinkle-free beings, and age gracefully. Cant do that without medical intervention - other than staying out of the sun and eating very healthy.

[Evan]

Na, women aren't expected to be perfect. Id rather see a woman believe in herself, be comfortable in her own beauty. Than give in to the whims of others.

[EcstasiaDame]

Do you think women who get plastic surgery dont believe in themselves?

[Evan]

No i dont mean that.  i meant if you have to make yourself believe you are beautiful, then i dont believe in that

[Evan]

But its all about money anyway, so what do i know.  Bigger Tits, No wrinkles, botox the face up. get a nose job.... live life while you can.

then when your a gramma, and your face droops, and your boobs dont... hey what the hell, right

[Evan]

your (figuratively speaking)  didnt mean you

[Ware_Wolf]

for sure it starts like that... but also there is a lot of pressure from the media and our society's views on aging women. Women are expected to be perfect, wrinkle-free beings, and age gracefully. Cant do that without medical intervention - other than staying out of the sun and eating very healthy.

Society and the media both suck.

I'd be damned before I listened to someone/something that sucked.

I'm overweight and not attractive in any sense of the word,  but even if I had millions to do something about it,  I'd burn the cash before I handed it to a surgeon.  If someone can't appreciate me for who I am,  fuck 'em.  Especially someone whose opinion was swayed by anything other than them self.

[Metalfreak]

Society and the media both suck.

I'd be damned before I listened to someone/something that sucked.

I'm overweight and not attractive in any sense of the word,  but even if I had millions to do something about it,  I'd burn the cash before I handed it to a surgeon.  If someone can't appreciate me for who I am,  fuck 'em.  Especially someone whose opinion was swayed by anything other than them self.

QFT.

[Kyra]

I agree with what Ware said in his first post.

As far as the rest, she wasn't posting to get feedback on whether or not she should get things done.  It is very easy for men to say " you don't need that "

its like guys who swear up and down that they do not like a girl with makeup on but then drool over some airbrushed super model in maxim...

I think its very hard for a man to understand and that is ok we are very different creatures.